A lot of things changed for me when the best human players in the world lost the dota game to open ai. Maybe this is why some people accepted defeat against the machine when the greatest chess player lost to a computer. There might be a theatre going on. Who knows?
I can not buy back the years I lost because of the attitudes of the teachers who traumatized me.
I can only buy therapy services to heal myself.
It is unfair but therapy services seem more affordable than law services.
If someone tells you "you are 'playing' the victim" tell them that "you are playing the charlatan like Freud and his followers".